Men, as previously noted, tend to shy away from spas.  I mean what man wants to sit in a massage chair and have his feet rubbed, while they are clipped and polish is applied?  Many wives think that this is something that their husbands will enjoy.  They enjoy it, why shouldn’t he?  Note to all women:  men are different than women.  They often enjoy spending their time doing different things, like watching sports, riding dirt bikes and enjoying a fine ale on a hot day.  I’m not much of sports fan, nor am I talented at keeping my balance, which means dirt bikes are out, but I do enjoy the taste of a beer every once in while.  So this lends itself to the reasoning that there are some things that men and women can enjoy together.  If you both love sports, head to a baseball game…he likes wine, hit up a few wineries.

And, when men hear the word “spa” keep in mind that they are most likely thinking of a place packed with estrogen and little women fretting about the shape of your toenail or trying to remove those well earned scars on your face.  Suggest perhaps that the spa also caters to those with back aches and muscle cramps and that in fact he might be better served to get a massage to work out all the stress induced kinks.  You never know…he might just become a regular at the spa!